tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post2597214183043243344..comments2024-01-12T06:12:35.838-05:00Comments on StorytellERdoc: The Appreciative CashierStorytellERdochttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14371229500424449124noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-13462080506374114462010-04-02T15:03:52.182-04:002010-04-02T15:03:52.182-04:00I grew up a Navy Brat. My grandfather, father, un...I grew up a Navy Brat. My grandfather, father, uncle and brother all served - and my brother died in-service at the age of 21. The other day I was at a service station, and a man in his dress blues was behind me in line. The line was long, so I had time to muster my courage, and after I paid, I turned to him and thanked him for his service. Then I shook his hand. He was startled but appreciative, but it was the reaction of the others who witnessed it that really impressed me. EVERYBODY shook his hand, as well. I hope he knows how that made MY day.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15105712056223524654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-4726020016882639882010-03-11T09:43:08.744-05:002010-03-11T09:43:08.744-05:00Scripture says "A soft answer turns away wrat...Scripture says "A soft answer turns away wrath and heaps burning coals on your enemy's head." There is much truth in this. And a lesson we can all learn. <br /><br />I don't think people here (UK) praise our servicemen and women enough. My experience (limited perhaps) is that most folk are ambivalent. Unless they specifically know someone connected with the war, it's happening in another country to other people and therefore not worth their bother. This, to me, is shameful. I have 3 cousins who were in each branch of the Services. 2 have now left but the 3rd, was 18 when he went away to fight in the Falklands. He came back a different person. I don't think we should underestimate the holes left by going to war. They can't always be fixed, but sometimes a thank you can lay a cool bandage over it. <br /><br />It is said that smiles cost nothing, and will always go a mile between the bends. Think about it... ;)Jabulanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12847825459654555235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-72920874879747998802010-03-09T11:37:15.111-05:002010-03-09T11:37:15.111-05:00You rock!!!!You rock!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-42219397913636468622010-03-07T20:29:18.026-05:002010-03-07T20:29:18.026-05:00:-) I am a military mom and I always thank those ...:-) I am a military mom and I always thank those servicemen and women both present and past for their service.<br /><br />I was once walking through our local mall with my daughter when she was home on leave, and dressed in her USAF BDU's, when a man holding the hand of his little son, walked across to shake her hand and thank her for her service. It always embarrassed her, and she didnt know what to say, I told her to say "thank you".<br /><br />I believe the heroes of today are not sports stars, or movie stars or politicians. The heroes of today are our servicemen and women who are risking their lives for our freedom. plain and simpleTonjiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00355425625416597121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-62900930222740167662010-03-07T14:00:07.727-05:002010-03-07T14:00:07.727-05:00Dear StorytellERdoc: To add to your many accomplis...Dear StorytellERdoc: To add to your many accomplishments and achievements, you have been honored with a Bloggery Award<br /><br />http://bipolar-stanscroniclesandnarritive.blogspot.com/2010/03/special-award-for-some-very-special.htmlAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08682484589058747783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-51013728375375455172010-03-07T01:46:00.475-05:002010-03-07T01:46:00.475-05:00I blogged just yesterday about how a couple bought...I blogged just yesterday about how a couple bought dinner for my family, because my husband was in uniform. The support and thanks he recieves truly means the world ton him, and to me and our childrenElainahttp://loveyhowell.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-37652946288968235062010-03-06T21:48:07.455-05:002010-03-06T21:48:07.455-05:00I LOVE the insightful and heartwarming post and co...I LOVE the insightful and heartwarming post and comments in here.<br /><br />Jim ..you ARE *inspirational* with your writing! We never know what seeds we are planting or how/when they will take root and bloom. :)SeaSprayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07906503090688697222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-50645232347359508682010-03-06T18:23:54.624-05:002010-03-06T18:23:54.624-05:00Brilliant post, and right on. It's easy to for...Brilliant post, and right on. It's easy to forget how powerful a smile and kind words can be.<br /><br />As a vet myself (though I was fortunate enough not to have served during wartime) I know many, many vets from Viet Nam, the Gulf War and now some from Iraq. They really do deserve our thanks, even if we don't believe in the war itself. Such selflessness and bravery should be recognized and honored.<br /><br />Thanks for all you do.<br />-WrenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-56021464112500016902010-03-06T12:04:59.336-05:002010-03-06T12:04:59.336-05:00Thank you for this post. It was beautifully done....Thank you for this post. It was beautifully done. I know that after reading it I was more thoughtful and slowed down a bit with the patients yesterday.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-1071780002218390912010-03-05T23:42:05.171-05:002010-03-05T23:42:05.171-05:00Lovely post and sentiments. I think the ultimate ...Lovely post and sentiments. I think the ultimate message is (as my kids said for years) BE GOOD-instead of spreading your stress, find a way to reduce your stress by making someone else smile, laugh, feel better about themselves, feel honored. There are many beyond those that have served in the military who deserve our thanks each and every day-teachers come to mind as obvious but so do the folks who collect my garbage (a job they do well and I don't like to think what life would be like without them). Don't get me wrong, I realize that Veteran's put their life on the line and that is very special but in the end, the value of pay it forward is that the more you do it, the better the whole world is!BrainDamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05938749719805630693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-44924444538742617052010-03-05T23:20:09.247-05:002010-03-05T23:20:09.247-05:00Reading one of your posts, more often than not lea...Reading one of your posts, more often than not leaves me with more confidence in fellow human beings. I am glad there are people out there who take the time to thank others for their service. I have felt the urge before to speak up, but somehow never knew how to articulate it, so it never came out. Thanks for speaking up and setting an example for your children, and now for us too.Calhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17204635978443190089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-87597640954314018102010-03-05T22:33:28.349-05:002010-03-05T22:33:28.349-05:00Just wanted to let you know that your blog is an i...Just wanted to let you know that your blog is an inspiration and that I hope to one day be a humble, caring and informed doc like yourself.<br /><br />Cheers.Charlienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-26036828040825935642010-03-05T22:27:31.238-05:002010-03-05T22:27:31.238-05:00wonderful.
and diana, that is amazing.wonderful.<br />and diana, that is amazing.Jennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-74901015062383916832010-03-05T19:24:40.894-05:002010-03-05T19:24:40.894-05:00I always feel so terrible for Vietnam vets in part...I always feel so terrible for Vietnam vets in particular - you have to wonder how many of them feel like their lives were so horribly changed for war they didn't believe in, a war that is now the go-to example for a pointless, unwinnable war.coulrophobic agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13529243280844103232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-69736355279618301542010-03-05T19:03:39.831-05:002010-03-05T19:03:39.831-05:00We live in a military town...there are frequent op...We live in a military town...there are frequent opportunities to show our gratitude. My dad once even bought breakfast for a soldier and his family. Now, my cousin is a soldier, and I'm quite proud of her and honored to be related to her. My best friend's father served in Iraq the year before he passed away from pancreatic cancer. I'm honored to call him my second father. Military men and women as well as their spouses and children are all heroes to me...they sacrifice so much that I know I never could/would for people who more often than not, take it for granted. <br /><br />Thank-you...all of you...for your selflessness.J-Quell'nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01878522077562588401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-61275078292065414552010-03-05T18:29:12.328-05:002010-03-05T18:29:12.328-05:00Coming from a military area and service family, I ...Coming from a military area and service family, I too, thank veterans and active military for their service when they are seen in the ER. It is always appreciated- you can see it in their faces and it puts a skip in their step. They stand taller and prouder even if they are there because of illness- often due to or related to their service.My father is retired Navy and I have 3nephews that are in different branches of service.<br /><br />Yes, I'm thankful to every veteran for their service for our often, "taken for granted" freedom.<br /><br />Great cashier, great post.911RNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11697968739358691531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-74549944821255429462010-03-05T17:43:01.118-05:002010-03-05T17:43:01.118-05:00I am not a military veteran, but I did have 12 yea...I am not a military veteran, but I did have 12 years of experience in supermarket cashiering...and for as many times as the management chided me for it, I always tried to engage the customer and have some friendly conversation (veterans included, but also lots of others if they were so inclined). We, too, had a few regulars who were veterans, with interesting stories to tell. It never failed to impress me. For though I could never have been in the military for medical reasons, I've always had respect for those who are/were. Another awesome post...now you've got to pass the tissues!thecatsmeowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16269681849332498912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-12659347364601114092010-03-05T16:57:51.406-05:002010-03-05T16:57:51.406-05:00Having come from an Army family, it is really nice...Having come from an Army family, it is really nice when Vets get thanked and praised for their service, especially Viet Nam vets because they received so little of it at the time of their service. But please be considerate of current servicemen. Last month when my son came home for leave he had a stop over in the Atlanta airport and I went to spend the few hours with him. Because of an ice storm we were there for about 10 hours. During that time so many people stopped to offer their thanks and appreciation that it became overwhelming to him. Seriously, it was more than 100 people. Some of them offered gift cards and wouldn't let him turn them down. The USO suite in the Airport is cramped and windowless, so it wasn't much of an option for us. I think if he'd been sitting there alone it might have been more welcomed, but as it was, he just wanted to spend some time with me. I'm not saying don't thank them, just be mindful of the situation.Lisa https://www.blogger.com/profile/09324961653370110887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-71703850036641863062010-03-05T13:47:15.673-05:002010-03-05T13:47:15.673-05:00I loved this post. I can understand your apprehens...I loved this post. I can understand your apprehension at approaching the man in the wheel chair to thank him, but it's something more of us should do. The benefits are amazing. I don't know how I found your blog, but it's very well written and I'm enjoying reading it very much.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16505134228454833619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-8733371696850835992010-03-05T13:33:56.444-05:002010-03-05T13:33:56.444-05:00What a beautifully poignant post.What a beautifully poignant post.A Navy veterannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-53613597910310730332010-03-05T12:35:20.807-05:002010-03-05T12:35:20.807-05:00Great post and so very true!
I was glad it was a ...Great post and so very true!<br /><br />I was glad it was a Vietnam vet. My husband was in Vietnam in 71-72 and back then no one thanked him or any Vietnam vet for their service. Spit on and baby killers yelled at them or urine tossed on them.<br /><br />I didn't meet him until after he came home ..but coming from a patriotic family in which both uncles served all through WWII ..he would've known I was proud of him and of course his family was. None of his friends cared ..no one showed any appreciation.<br /><br />Thank God all that changed with the 1st Gulf war. It was so wrong and disrespectful what they did to Vietnam vets. Thank God we have moved on from that.<br /><br />My younger son just said this morning to his friend home on leave,that he was up at the Gym wearing a Coast Guard T-shirt (friend in Coast Guard) and a woman came up to him and said "Thank You." and son said he explained he wasn't the one in the CG. But how wonderful the woman took time to do that.<br /><br />Regarding the cashier: Kick the dog or "Pay it Forward" ..kindness that is. She handled him beautifully and you were sweet to acknowledge her abilities. Even if people remain grouchy ..you never know what seeds of kindness are being planted in their spirit... some just take longer to germinate than others. I like to think of it as a ripple of good going forward.<br /><br />I was like that with the ER patients I registered. You never know what is going on in a person's life ..and if it's bad ..sometimes even just a warm smile can brighten their spirit... and things can begin to look a little better. Good words are never wasted. They go out there and accomplish good things. I think someday we will be surprised if we are ever given a Jimmy Stewart-It's a Wonderful Life opportunity to see the positive effect we've had on others and in this world and it all starts from somewhere.<br /><br />Your kids learned valuable lessons that day.SeaSprayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07906503090688697222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-3367221125710171272010-03-05T12:24:38.838-05:002010-03-05T12:24:38.838-05:00My husband is a Sgt. in the Army. In 2007, he rupt...My husband is a Sgt. in the Army. In 2007, he ruptured 2 discs in the line of duty. In 2009 he had a 2 level spinal fusion that went bad, leaving him disabled. Three times in our marriage (before his injuries), we have been out to eat with our 4 children and have had our meal paid for. Each time the anonymous "payer" has left before we can have the chance to thank them. I will never forget those moments. Because of this, I try to pay it forward with everyone I meet. I can't tell you how much this has meant to us!<br /><br />Love your blog and congrats on the win!Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08417191264979526898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-72939479858002298222010-03-05T11:47:28.331-05:002010-03-05T11:47:28.331-05:00When I was at ODS (a sort of basic training for mi...When I was at ODS (a sort of basic training for military physicians to be), I can remember how I felt towards the end - sleep deprived, mentally and physically exhausted, and just so over it. Somewhere near us there was to be some sort of competition for the wounded warriors. Many of the competitors came to our base and were working out on the track directly outside our barracks. Watching the single, double, even triple amputees running as fast and has hard as they could around the track gave all of us the energy and faith to continue. We realized what we were going through was nothing compared to what they had been through. We also realized that those heroes, and ones like them, would be our patients someday. It's amazing when you realize that at some point, you could be inspired, lifted, and amazed at every single one of your patients.StudentDochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02830536301077719899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-3000289700545835692010-03-05T11:36:47.881-05:002010-03-05T11:36:47.881-05:00Beautifully written, and great advice. Thanks.Beautifully written, and great advice. Thanks.rlbateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15236331355857884458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558528804236989500.post-36044381519259283452010-03-05T10:47:46.814-05:002010-03-05T10:47:46.814-05:00It's amazing where inspirations come from. We ...It's amazing where inspirations come from. We have a fair number of amputees at our local rehab hospital compliments of Afghanistan. Since I'm a knitter with lots of time on my hands I've knit a few blankets to hand out. Some of these soldiers families are not in Toronto and this offers a little comfort. We all need to do something for veterans...ciaoRosittahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05722304052321553692noreply@blogger.com